Second, Third and Whatever

I am big on being better together.
I know I have strengths and weaknesses.  I know that others do too.  I also know that when we combine, then what I am weak in, another is strong in, and vice versa.
It is on that basis I like to give people a second, third and whatever chance.  I know that all actions have consequences.  For some under the law there is no second chance.  It is safer for all humanity that it is that way.  That does not mean any of our actions to each other are unforgiveable, but some definitely have an isolating quality that is best for all.
What matter to me in all cases though is the goal.  Remembering that second, third and whatever number of chances are what I sometimes need before I get it right, I need to expect the same of another.
For me it is not so much what I am, but what I could be.  Admittedly there can be a great chasm between the two, yet to me it is not the size of the chasm that matters, but the size of the willingness to go for it.
I reckon there are many that have unused potential.  That others perhaps do not give a second thought.  Many that are seen only as bit players in my goal.  Yet to me, it can be those same ones that may only need a second, third or whatever chance to shine and display their full potential.  I know I can be in such a hurry that I forgo the growth of another in pursuit of my aim, but where instant is not necessary, I am the poorer for not allowing development in another.
It seems to me so often those that are given a second, third or whatever chance that are the best and most loyal.  I know that for me getting another chance when I did not deserve it, inspired me more than being discarded.
I don’t know that I can necessarily explain it well, but I do know that when I crash pursuing a worthwhile goal, and am encouraged to give it another go, I am way more inclined to believe in myself - knowing another believes in me.