Practice

It is a day after the email from James Clear and there are things in there I like.  I had a choice of a few things I could write about and maybe I will write on others another time.
I see rules as a “follow because it is a part of me and I want to” rather than only a “follow  because I have to.”  In other words, rule keeping to me is an internal desire rather than an external law.  But for me my relationship built on love takes practice on my part.
 I do like what is said here and believe the principle is applicable to everyone.
"Two simple rules: You get better at what you practice. Everything is practice.
Look around and you may be surprised by what people are “practicing" each day. If you consider each moment a repetition, what are most people training for all day long? Many people are practicing getting mad on social media. Others are practicing the fine art of noticing how they have been wronged. Still more have mastered the craft of making plans (but never following through).
But, of course, it doesn't have to be that way.  What are you practicing?"
I totally hold to such things. It is a quote but to me a truism that I am either getting bitter or better.  My choice.  What am I practicing?
They say practice makes perfect and as I say often “what you think about grows.”   I very much feel the choice is mine.  I can give attention to the wrongs in this world and get angry, or to righting the wrongs and get busy.  Righting wrongs to me is not just changing perhaps inadequate rules, but seeing me changed and coming at it from there.
I blow it and get disappointed, but I know my heart wants the best.  Caring matters to me.  I make mistakes.  But I’m practicing.